The Cheshire Cat...

Alice : Would you tell me please, which way I ought to go from here?

Cat : That depends a good deal on where you want to go?

Alice: I dont much care where...

Cat: Then it doesn't matter which way you go…

Alice: --so long as I get SOMEWHERE

Cat: "Oh, you're sure to do that,", "if you only walk long enough."

Often in our lives we do not see our dreams turn into a reality because we give up and abandon our dreams in the middle.

Life is Hard, Short and Painful but its up to you to make it Good, Rich and Precious... and only a persistently consistent approach towards life gets you there...

Note: The conversation between The Cat and Alice is from the Novel "Alice In Wonderland" by Lewis Carroll.

Life...

Sometimes life is like a book... you can get so desperate to reach the end of the story that you conveniently skip a couple of chapters. However when you get to the end you are left with this icky restless feeling and you know that you need to go back to those missing chapters before you can close the book.

Because Life is....

I want to achieve this... I want to achieve something higher than this.... something more than what I have right now.... the wild goose chase continues....

Did I or did we in this chase ever stop for a moment and think about just living?

I wonder if we in this chase are forgetting how to live? how to cherish the beauty of creation, called life. 

So, I started asking people around me the same questions, I was surprised by some of the answers, fell into a deep thought after listening to some answers...

In the end something told me that "Life, above all, is just an act of faith".

Because life is.... life just is....

Just thoughts...

This is wrong and this is right - Are we not being judgemental? Why cant we take things for what they are?

Everything has a price - The price of anything is the amount of your life you exchange for it, but life even for a minute is priceless - so how can one say which one is more pricier?

Coming to Fate & (or) / Destiny - do you mean that for everything that failed, was it destined to fail? or is it because of the lack of human effort? if it is the lack of human effort are you not the master of your destiny? 

In my view I believe that one can never connect the dots (in this case make sense of certain actions or decisions) looking forward. One can only connect the dots looking backwards. 

Just as a thought - Life only delivers the opportunities that you manufacture !!!

Cheee naaaa bathuku !!!

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Friendship....

Friendship is more than just a word,
too lightly said, too often heard;
But,
friendship is something warm and true,
the friendship that I share with you...

My valentines wish to all…

To all my friends who are single…

Love is like a butterfly,

The more you chase it - The more it eludes you,

But if you just let it fly,

It will come to you when you least expect it.

Love can make you happy and often it hurts,

But love is only special,

When you give it to someone who’s really worthy of it.

So take your time and choose the best…

To my friends who are not so single…

Love isn’t about becoming somebody else’s “Perfect Person”

It’s about finding someone who helps you become the best you can be.

To my friends who are playboy – playgirl types…

Never say, “I love you” if you don’t care,

Never talk about feeling – if they aren’t really there.

Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart,

Never say you will, if you don’t plan to start,

Never look in the eye, when all you can do is lie.

The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl – is to let her fall in love,

When he doesn’t intend to catch her fall.

And it works both ways…

To my friends who are married…

Love is not about “it’s your fault”

But “I am sorry”

Not “where are you”

But “I’m here - right here”

Not “how could you”

But “I understand”

Not “I wish you were”

But “I’m thankful you are”.

To my friends who are engaged…

The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together…

But, how good you are for each other.

To all my friends who are – heart broken…

Heartbreaks last as long as you want

And cuts as deep as you allow then to go…

The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks

But, to learn from them.

To my friends who are naïve…

How to be in love!!!

Fall but don’t stumble

Be consistent but not persistent

Share and never be unfair.

Understand and try not to demand and get hurt

But never keep the pain…

To my friends who are possessive…

It breaks your heart to see the one you love, happy with someone else.

But it’s more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you…

To my friends who are – afraid to confess…

Love hurts when you break up with someone,

It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you,

But love hurts even more when the person you love has no idea how you feel.

To my friends who are… still holding on…

A sad things about life is when you meet someone and fall in love

Only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be

And that you have wasted years on someone who wasn’t worth, if he isn’t worth it now he’s not going to be worth it a year or 10 years from now – so

- Let go…

To all my friends…

My wish for you is a man / woman whose love is…

Honest

Strong

Mature

Never changing

Uplifting

Protective

Encouraging

Rewarding

And unselfish.

“As long as we have memories... Yesterday remains

As long as we have hope... Tomorrow awaits...”